พูดคำว่า 'ไม่' ซะบ้าง

posted on 26 May 2009 19:26 by lostofctrl

แปลความจาก Saying 'no' http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2009/05/saying-no.html

ยิ่งคุณมีความสามารถมากเท่าไหร ก็ยิ่งมีคนอยากขอความช่วยเหลือจากคุณมากเท่านั้น คนพวกนี้มักจะเข้ามาคุณอย่างดี เพื่อขอแบ่งปันความรู้ และผลประโยชน์ เท่าที่เราจะให้เขาเหล่านั้นได้

ทางเลือกของคุณ - คุณอาจจะพยายามใช้ความสามารถของคุณช่วยเหลือเหล่าคนที่ "เสียงดัง"เพื่อทำให้พวกเขามีความสุข(ชั่วคราว) ด้วยผลประโยชน์ที่ได้จากคุณ หรือคุณจะหักมุมด้วยคำพูดง่ายๆว่า 'ไม่'
 
คุณจะพูด 'ไม่' ด้วยความเฉยชา หรือ ตอบรับด้วยการปฎิเสธอย่างทันท่วงที หรืออาจจะเปบี่ยนวิธีนิดหน่อย ด้วยการเริ่มต้นด้วย 'ไม่' และนำทางให้เขาไปหาคนที่น่าจะพูดว่า 'ได้'
แต่ ถ้าหากคุณพูดคำว่า 'ได้'  เพียงเพราะคุณไม่สามารถทนกลับความเจ็บปวดระยะสั้นๆจากการปฎิเสธแล้ว มันไม่ใช่เรื่องดีกับตัวคุณและงานของคุณเลย
 
 'ไม่' กับคนที่พยายาม 'ส่งเสียงดัง' ร้องหาความช่วยเหลือแล้วนั้น เปิดทางคุณสามารถ 'ได้' รับโอกาสสำคัญได้ในอนาคต

 

 

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